Monday, July 27, 2009

NFL Allows Vick Back


As an avid animal lover, this piece of shit excuse of a man disgusts me. The fact that he could be playing in a sport that so many of our youth get their hero's from is reprehensible. I don't see how the powers that be could ever think this man would ever have a career again.
*** I am leaving my original post up. I have however changed my opinion. After reading Mr.Vick's apology, stating his desire to work with animal shelters & become a role model for kids, I had to stop and think. If he is sincere, and IF he actually does the things he said he would do... who better to be a role model? He has been on the wrong side of the law, done his time, and is asking publicly for another chance.A lot of kids today find themselves in the same situation as Mr. Vick. I would like to think i am a woman of compassion and have a great capacity for forgiveness. Not that my small opinion makes a bit of difference, but we have to forgive to be forgiven. My best wishes to Michael Vick, and to the people that had more compassion than me. I learned a small lesson here.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

women of abuse

Ladies this is a serious problem in alot of cultures today. There is NO excuse to stay in an abusive relationship. Abuse comes in more than one form, you don't have to be physically hit to be abused.Mental abuse (controling,name calling,manipulation etc..) these are all forms of abuse. The excuse that "I love him" is just that, an excuse. If you have children in the home, they are learning by your example. The boys will learn to be abusive to women, and the girls will learn to take it. There is no law in this land that sez a woman has to have a man to be complete. Learn who you are, learn to love yourself, because before you can love someone else, you HAVE to love yourself.I know all the excuses, as i have used them myself. Money is usually a huge barrier to a woman leaving a bad relationship/marriage. Divorce is against your religion is another. I am working two jobs and stashing money back like Dillinger on crack. Making the decision to leave is hard, but it's NOT your failure. The abuser has to own this himself.You know you have given all of your heart and soul, let that be enough.Reach out to friends, family, your religious affiliations, womens shelters, or even ME. I am getting out of my situation and i would be more than willing to help someone in need. I have found the parts of myself that i let someone else smother for the last 10 years. It IS possible to get out with both your dignity and life. Please do not "settle" for an unhappy existance. Anyone who needs help with this type of situation, please feel free to contact me razorxmuse@yahoo.com If you are in a life threatining situation or just need to blow off steam to a live person who cares, i will make my cell # available follow me on twitter and send me a message, @razorxmuse. No one should have to live this way. There are good men/women out there, but before you can persue any relationship outside of the one your in, you have to "fix you". Only then will you be truly ready to expierence love at it's fullest.